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  • Writer's pictureLeah Kostamo

Get Unstuck with Expressive Writing



You might imagine Expressive Writing as journaling on steroids! It’s a specific

therapeutic practice created by the psychologist James Pennebaker that many people

have found helpful for gaining insight and processing trauma. Since the 1980’s there

have been over one thousand (!) clinical studies demonstrating its effectiveness (the studies included everything from lessening emotional distress and PTSD symptoms to lessening pain experienced from fibromyalgia)!


Here's a short How To list to get you started:


Set Aside Time:

● Find a comfortable, quiet place where you won’t be interrupted.

● Spend 15 to 20 minutes on four different writing sessions.


Choose a Topic:

● Select a specific event or experience that has affected you emotionally.

● It could be something positive or negative, but it should have had a significant

impact on you.

● Though this has not be studied as thoroughly, you could also choose a theme (e.g.

“everything about my propensity to perfectionism”) and then explore a specific

incident where this theme showed up (e.g. “the time I stayed up all night to

rewrite that paper six times”).


Write Freely and Honestly:

● Start writing about your deepest thoughts and feelings regarding the chosen

experience.

● You can write free-hand or on a computer. Studies show it doesn’t matter. Do

what feels most natural to you.

● Write continuously without worrying about grammar, spelling, or structure.

● Be as honest and open as possible. There's no need to censor yourself.

● If you run out of things to “say,” just rewrite sentences you’ve already written until

something new comes.


Explore Emotions and Reactions:

● Describe what you felt during the event, how it affected you, and any emotions

that arose.

● Explore your reactions, thoughts, and feelings after the event.

● Be as honest as possible (remember nobody will see this but you!).


Don't Focus on Making Sense or Finding Solutions:

● This is VERY important: The goal is not to rationalize or find solutions but to

express yourself authentically.

● It's about the process of getting your thoughts and emotions out, rather than

achieving a specific outcome.

● Don’t judge anything you’ve written – everything belongs!


Destroy the writing or keep it safe from other’s eyes:

● Most people will want to shred (or set fire to!?) their entry after each session. But if

you want to access it at the end of the four sessions, put it in a place where

nobody else can access it.


Repeat the Writing Exercise:

● You can either do this writing exercise on consecutive days for four days or you

can choose a different rhythm (e.g. every Saturday morning for four weeks or

every other day for 8 days).

● Each day, try to delve deeper into your emotions or explore different aspects of

the event.

● It is very important to stick with the same event each writing session.


Reflect on the Writing:

● After completing the four days of writing, take some time to reflect on your

experiences during the writing process.

● Notice any changes in your emotions, thoughts, or perspectives on the event (e.g.

do you notice something that you previously hadn’t. Like, “Wow, that event was so

scary, and now in hindsight, I notice how I thought I was somehow to blame, but I

now realize it wasn’t my fault.”). If you’re seeing a therapist these insights might

be something you want to explore with them.


Additional Tips:

“Flip Out Rule”: To start, don’t pick the very most traumatic event of your life

(or one that you feel like you couldn’t ‘look at’ without flipping out!). Start with

something hard, but not so hard.

Carry On! Try to be consistent with the writing exercise. It might be tempting to

stop after one or two sessions (who wants to wallow in hard past experiences!?),

but know that the studies show persevering through four sessions produces the

best results.

Judge not! Whatever arises, see if you can consider the thoughts, emotions,

‘parts’ that are activated with curious compassion. And if you find it hard to be

compassionate, just notice that!

Pivot! If you find you get stuck, consider incorporating some of these questions

from somatic trauma therapy:

➔ “What happened next?”

➔ “Who was there to help?”

➔ “When did you know you were safe?”


Pennebaker's research indicates that this form of expressive writing works. That is, it

can help folks process hard emotions, increase self-understanding, and bring about

better mental and even physical health (one study showed that immunity markers

increased after expressive writing). All that said, the exercise comes with the caveat

that many folks feel sad or upset right after writing (you’re digging into trauma, after all).

This usually dissipates within an hour or two and is especially acute only after the first

session, but it’s good to be aware of this. Therefore, make time for the ‘come down’ so

that you’re not rushing off to work or taking care of small children right afterwards.

Perhaps allow time for a walk or a nap or something mellow as a one-hour buffer

between the writing and engaging normal life (especially after the first session).


Very helpful resources:


Pennebaker’s book on Expressive Writing:

81462524921


An article on the Health Benefits & How To’s of Expressive Writing:

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Huberman Lab podcast:

rove-mental-physical-health




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